Happy Thanksgiving!!

So many people have asked me: "Just how do you actually MOVE to South Korea? What's THAT process like?"

Well, today you get a little taste of the madness folks. First of all, if you had come to our house in the early weeks of November you would have seen little green post it notes like these all over the walls. This helped us prepare for moving stage one - the South Korea shipment.

Moving Stage two is when they come after Christmas and put all our loose housewares into storage, leaving just the large furniture items to stage the home and Moving Stage three is if and only if the house EVER sells, they come back for the large furniture pieces. Thankfully, I will not be here for Stage 3. 2 rounds of moving really is enough for me.

So the movers came on Monday, Nov 16th and packed up all the things on the post-it notes which we had cleaned and arranged into piles in each room. It was quite a process.

We are taking things like favorite kid furniture, toys, bedding, pictures, bikes, ect. They allowed us a 40 ft shipping container (the contents of which you would NEVER be able to fit into a Korean apt) and we filled about half of a 20 ft shipping container, which is still a ton of stuff.Here is a shot of our container which will be loaded on a ship and then begin it's long journey across the Pacific Ocean. They gave us a value of US$40,000 for all of our crap and it's a good thing the movers are not the same guys that will be on the ship because I would have been tempted to bribe them to just shove the thing off the boat as soon as they reached open ocean. $40,000!?! I mean come on!
I did however ask the movers how they felt about getting rid of the "Lloyd Triestino" on the side and spraypainting "Team Stolasz" on instead. I even told them I would make the stencil. They were NOT down with that. The problem with our country Ladies and Gentlemen is that no one goes the extra mile in their job anymore.
So the house does feel a bit empty, but we still have everything we need so not to worry....

As soon as the Korea shipment left, we started gearing up for the holidays. Teddy and Sasha both celebrated with Thanksgiving feasts at their school. Here is a shot of Teddy and Luca with the rest of the Manatee class at their feast. It must have been great because I was unable to get either one of them to stop eating long enough to take a picture:

So the next week was full of trying to remember to bring juice boxes to school one day and chicken nuggets the next. This sounds like an easy challenge, but I have a confession to make: my brain has gone to mush. Usually my mind works like a super computer - I mean I never write anything down, and It's just all there. I wake up in the am and think "What today?" and the line of code goes "Wednesday. Library book day. Sasha to school, Teddy not, you're driving carpool, make lunches, visit post office, send B-day letter to Smitty, and lecture tonight is Coastal Processes - don't forget to email your power point slides to yourself..." But in the last 6 weeks my mind has started to fail me. I wake up in the am and just think "duuuuh what day is it?" I come out of any shopping mall and stand there like a moron realizing that I have just no idea where the damn car is. None! This doesn't happen to me! Jeff's take on it is that now I should understand what he has to deal with all the time and maybe I will be a little more compassionate when he takes the wrong exit or forgets where the car is instead of looking at him with pity and going "REALLY?!?"

I have not lost a child yet and I also have not showed up to teach my class with nothing (both things I fear greatly) but I do have to say that I flaked on Library book day like 3 straight weeks in a row. Somebody send me a Tuesday night email reminder please!

Here is Sasha, my little ham with the Marlin class having her feast a few days later:

Me and my 2 wonderful kiddos. I thank God for them everyday. I am also humbled by their abilities to think mental circles around me in my weakened condition. This does not bode well for their teenaged years....

Sasha wanted pictures with her favorite boys. Here is this year's crush:

And last year's crush:

Man, seems like only yesterday she was 3 and refused to admit that there were ANY boys at all in her class. Here is Teddy and one of his good buddies Nick. Poor Ted. It's his first year of school and he finally has his own friends and is being invited to his own Birthday parties and I am just yanking the rug out from under him in 2 more weeks.
The other holiday stuff is also keeping us busy. We went to Old Town Spring so Sasha could play with her Suzuki group and we met Santa. Santa and his lady friend liked Monty so much that THEY asked for a picture with my dog. Love the way Monty is looking at the camera like "yeah, it's pretty much like this wherever I go. I put up with it..." Hopefully Grammy and Poppy duck will keep him well-groomed and give him plenty of new opportunities to mingle with "his public" in NC. Many of you have asked if we are taking Monty to SK. They EAT dog there folks. Monty would be the like a South Korean wedding feast. Are you kidding me? He is staying state-side with his grandparents.
Here is the diva playing in the Christmas Violin whatever it was. She's such a rock-star....

We also took a break this week with school being out and went to the zoo with Uncle Will, Auntie Andreea and Luca. It was probably our last visit to the zoo and most of our favorite animals were out and about so that was really fun.
So that's all for now. It looks like we will be here through the holidays and then we will be flying to SK on the 31st of Dec, arriving on Jan 1st (good thing it's not Y2K year eh Mom and Dad?) So we will say Happy New Year on the plane as we cross the international date line if we can figure out when that is. We got a really empty flight because most people don't want to be flying for New Years but being parents of small children who have no life anyway we decided to jump at the opportunity of a semi-empty flight. Maybe we can run down the aisles with streamers or something.....

Trip Report Part 3!

So even though I left on Monday am and left on Saturday am, we really only had three days to get things done because when you fly to Korea you fly into tomorrow and leave early in the am and get there at night the following day Korean time. When you fly back you are flying into yesterday so you leave Korea at 7am and get home to Houston at noon. Only a 5 hour trip! (yeah right!)
Wed we were picked up by Mr Robert Cho. He works for Hochang, the company Jeff will be working with over there. He insisted on taking us around and helping us in our housing search. Mr Robert is a total character. He is really funny and animated and wants to do anything and everything for you but he apparently waaaaay overestimates the capabilities of the jet-lagged mind because he immediately started giving us words for things in Korean that we should know and by the 10th new word I had pretty much lost them all. One of the words he taught us that became the word of the trip is 'wegugin' which means foreigner. For Jeff and I the rest of the trip it was "man you're such a wegugin" and "Whatever, you're the biggest wegugin EVER" and if one of us was attempting to eat something with chopsticks and dropped it the other would roll their eyes and mutter "wegugin" under their breath.
The great thing about being in the back seat is that I was able to record most of the Korean lesson on my ipod so I could cram later.

Here is a shot of Mr Robert, two guys from Hyundai, and Jeff at the Bangeodong apartments which is the first place we visited. These are apartments that Hyundai provides for wegugin like us and they are really nice but about 5 miles from the wegugin hak-yo or foreign school. So we liked these apts but since I won't have a car and I have to go to the school three times a day to drop the kids off, then pick up Teddy, then pick up Sasha we thought that would be kind of a nightmare. Then we looked at apartments in the foreigners compound which is right where the school is. These were definitely convenient, but really old and funky and small. The biggest one was 3 bedrooms and featured amenities like stained sky-blue carpeting and 5 kinds of wood stain in one room. So after the first round of housing search our options were nice but too far, or close but too funky. That gave us lots to think about. Next we met Hugh Dyson, the British Headmaster of the Wegugin Hak-yo (see you guys already know some Korean!) where Sasha and Teddy will go and he was really nice and the school is great! We will actually have to catch up academically. I couldn't believe what the Kindergartners were doing! Actually Sasha is in the Stage one class which is 5 and 6 year olds and the equivalent of our Kindergarten and Teddy is in the Kindy class which is like our 3/4 pre-school year. So he goes 9-12 and Sasha will go 9-3. Quite a change for both of them.

This is Teddy's little School: The early years center is off at it's own location and it's a really sweet little program. I think Teddy will really like going to school everyday for a shorter time.

Next Robert had gotten permission for us to enter Hyundai Heavy Industries (which is literally the size of Bend) The man who began it started as a bicycle rice delivery guy and is responsible for building like half of modern day Korea so he's a national hero. We saw a movie about the complex which is about the size of Bend, OR and then walked through an exhibit hall about how it all had started and how the guy did it all which was actually pretty fascinating. You can't take a picture of the Hyundai complex unless you did it from an airplane. It just goes on FOREVER!

Then we drove all around the complex. At this point it was like 3 in the afternoon and I was jet-lagged and really needed a cup of coffee and we were in the Man-World of cranes and dry-docks and I just kept muttering "wow", "how fascinating" and "incredible!" I must have done a great job fakin' it though because Jeff later said "man, you were really interested in the Hyundai complex" and I just looked and him in amazement and then threw my hand in air, channeled my inner John Lovtiz and yelled "ACTING!" This little scene would be repeated over the course of the trip....
On the way back to the hotel Mr. Robert decided to give us a quiz of all the Korean he taught us in the am. I was brain-dead, but salvaged the moment by going "hmm let me think.... I know I remember....." to stall for time while I quickly looked up the word on the Korean dictonary on my iPod and then nailed it. He now thinks I am a genius and Jeff did too until I told him about my cheating. Shouldn't have said anything....
We went back and ate dinner at the hotel at this massive buffet (part of which was kind of like a 'Fear Factor' challenge) and then went out for a beer and then I finally collapsed at 9pm. I was sure I was done for the night, but the first night 3 am curse got me and I found myself wide awake and reading for about an hour.
The next day we got up and went to a massive traditional market in the middle of the city. There were huge, open-sided buildings, one for veggies, one for fruit, one for spices and various other things and one for fish and seafood.

Life with Stoli moment:
So I really wanted to take a lot more pictures of this market, especially the fish part when Jeff started getting all " I don't think you should take pictures" and "Geez, didn't you already get a picture of that" so finally I was like "What's the deal?" long story short, Jeff is a very calm poised individual who likes to lay low, blend in and not make a fuss (yet he married me?!) and he didn't want people to think we were wegugins. Seriously. Wow, wouldn't want anyone to think I was a wegugin, because 5'9" blond haired me blends in SO WELL with the South Koreans. I almost blew my cover! Whew, better put that camera away eh? With any luck they'll take me for a local just out for a stroll....

But although he was huffing in irritation by the end of it, I did get a few pictures in each section FOR YOU ladies and gents because you are worth it. Here is the section where they were selling whatever, spices, dried fish,bowls of salt....

Seafood section: Some of it was dead and on ice but a lot of it was in big tanks or tubs still alive and you could pick it and then they would I guess fillet it for you or whatever. There were also cooking stalls at the ends of each section where you could bring something and people would cook it right up for you. I would love to do this but I don't speak Korean and would probably end up doing it wrong and looking like a dang wegugin.

More fish and seafood. The place was HUGE!

We spent the day with 2 guys named Neil. One talked, one didn't. They were from a company called "Stop Korea" (??) that helps with relocation. They first took us to the Sante Ville apartment complex. This is a massive, complex that is only 3 years old. It's really apartment complexy and very urban and not at all "me" but, it is right next to the hyundai complex with an 8 minute walk to the foreign school and the unit we looked at was large and modern. About 2,000 sq feet, with 4 bedrooms and 2 bathrooms which is HUGE by Korean standards. I will send picts after it becomes home, but for now it's just a bunch of empty rooms but I did take a picture of the Kitchen and the other thing that is kind of neat about Korean apts. They have these big sunroom/flowerplanting areas off of each room in the apartment. This is the longest one and runs the width of the Master Bedroom, living room, and what will be the playroom. The other rooms also have them but they are just accessible from that one room. They are fully enclosed with sliding glass doors or windows so the space can be screened in area, or open balcony or almost a greenhouse space. This lets a lot of natural light in and really increases the living area.


Then Neil and silent Neil took us for coffee and we climbed a hill to a park next to Ulsan Beach. This little crescent beach is the only natural coastline section that hasn't been "Hyundized" but you can still see Hyundai in all directions.


My favorite thing about Neil #1 is that if you asked him anything he immediately responded "sure, no problem" so I started getting more interesting with my questions:
Neil what about Jeff's car?
"that's no problem, We will take care of it."
Neil how do we get phones?
"It's no problem, I get for you."
"Neil can we have whatever furniture we want?"
"sure, no problem"
"Neil how about pets, can we bring our cats?"
"sure, no problem"

We said good-bye to the 2 Neils because we were ready to explore on our own for a while. They wanted to follow us around and be there with the van if we needed them but we convinced them that we would be fine on our own and we had their business cards if we got arrested so they finally took off. The rest of the day we cracked each other up trying to come up with increasingly ridiculous questions for Neil. If one of us came up with the query, the other person had to respond with their best Neil impression:
Neil can our family apply to be in the Korean space program?
"sure, no problem"
Neil how about getting us some plutonium so we can build our own Nuclear device?
"absolutely, it's no problem"
We went to the HomePlus supermarket. This store was just like U.S. mega store with groceries, a level for homegoods and a level for clothes, furniture ect. We wandered around just to try to get a feel for what shopping will be like and I am happy to say it will be relatively easy. I am sure I will have my "thought this was yogurt but it's actually cream cheese" moments as all the packaging is in Hangul, but we'll figure it out. There were some interesting things we found at the store though. For example they had Post and Kellog's cereals but no Cheerios, and this cereal comes with Free Socks! (which make total sense....)

We like chips and trail mix, they like dried fish. And I hear they eat this of their own free will. I am even starting to believe it because this dried fish is everywhere:

We walked all over the dong-gu area (our new neighborhood) and then took a cab back to the Lotte Hotel. Drank some Soju then went out to eat and then took in a movie before hitting the sack.
The next day Mr. Robert had us picked up and brought out to Hochang HQ because he and Mr U.K. Kim wanted to take Jeff and I to this awesome traditional Korean restaurant in the mountains.

This is what Korean dwellings used to look like before everyone moved into high-rise apartments. What a shame.



This was the main entrance and you can see that everyone takes off their shoes. Each table is in it's own little room with sliding panels so it's very private and nice. Most of the other patrons were eating Korean style at a low table and sitting on cushions but they had a western style table brought in for the wegugin. I was kind of bummed and would have liked to sit on the floor but I was wearing a skirt so it was probably all for the best. Wouldn't want the head of Hochang to accidently see my drawers, you know?

The meal was pretty cool. It came in 3 courses and each course had about 1,000 little dishes to try. Each dish had exactly 4 bite-sized servings so you get one bite of everything. That's fine because if you don't like it you're done with it in one bite, and to tell you the truth there is nothing amazingly delicious about Korean food. It's not nasty either, but I was never tempted to ask "Man, can we ask the kitchen to send out more of THAT?". Jeff describes it well, "it inspires you to eat just enough to make the hunger pains go away, and after that there's really no point". The meal was a fun experience though and there were many interesting tastes in there. Some we may even grow to like.

After that they took us down to the bottom floor to a tea room for a traditional Korean tea ceremony. It was neat. the table was awesome and the room had earthen walls with log ends sticking out. Why can't we find an apartment like that?

Mr U.K. Kim had to go back to work, but Mr. Robert then took us to a traditional Buddist temple up in the hills. It was really beautiful. Here is the main gate:

The day was beautiful and the fall colors were at their peak for South Korea, so it was a beautiful walk up the road from the gate to the temple.

This temple only has female monks. Here we are with one of them that wanted to pose with us. She was tiny. I gotta start remembering to suck in my gut for pictures...

Cool stuff:

My favorite thing about the temple was the the roof supports were painted with exquisite detail. I couldn't stop looking at it. It was absolutely amazing. Here it is close up:

And farther out so you can see the detail:

Here is one of the monks inside bowing in front of a statue. I was really hoping her cell phone would ring so I could see what would happen:

This is one of the structures that has been restored but not yet painted with all that artwork. I think it's just as beautiful:


After the temple we headed back into Ulsan city and went out for Italian food. Walked around at night and then turned in early since we had to get up at 3:45 to catch a taxi to Pusan to fly out in the am.
So that was our trip. We got a ton of questions answered and figured a lot of things out. We are going to have a fun and challenging year over there. I think we will enjoy it and also enjoy coming home at the end of it but rest assured that we will be just fine, I will be able to cook and buy everything that I cook and buy now, and it will just be a great experience. Sasha's 2 greatest wishes are to live in an apartment building and share a room with her brother and Teddy doesn't care as long as Sasha's around so from the kid's perspective, all their wishes are coming true!

Trip Report Part 2.

First of all, as promised, a picture of the Asiana Stewardesses. They have an amazingly fast-paced walk so it's a little blurry and they are waaay better in person, but you get the idea.



Well we're back. I was hoping for a wireless connection on the plane so I could do all this while in 13 hour lock down but no such luck so you get one today and one tomorrow.
When we last left our heroine she had just arrived at the Lotte Hotel in Ulsan. So about the hotel... the first thing that caught my attention was the incredible complexity of the toilet. Not what you want to see when you need to pee and then have to worry "is this thing going to do something unexpected while I am at my most vunerable?" and you're standing there doing a little I-have-to-pee dance trying to figure it out. The good news is that you can choose to just pee in it without any bells and whistles if you so choose. If you want something EXTRA however, it will spray water at you (with different vectors to choose from) or send nice warm air in the general direction of your bum (quite enjoyable). There is also a lot of warnings about what NOT to do with the NASA potty:
You can click on any of these pictures and make them bigger by the way...
So from the potty I moved to the fridge and checked out the selection of beverages. The name "Pocari Sweat" does NOT make me want to crack open the can and give it a swig. I don't know who Pocari is, but he can keep his nasty sweat to himself.
So I decided that in part two of the trip report I would talk about Ulsan and my impressions of Koreans in general and then tomorrow I would give the day to day of what we did and saw. Korean Observation #1: They like to mix things together that don't necessarily belong together. Like shorts, tights and knee high boots (more on fashion later) or they'll take an ultra-modern decoration scheme and then throw lacy doilies on the couches (NO!!). It's really strange. So the Lotte Hotel which is one of the nicest hotels in Ulsan is kind of like a decor potpourri:


The sleek, modern kitchen with floating glass shelves:



The more formal furniture, recessed ceiling, and wall paper:


















Yup, all mixed together:

Or this lovely combination - two great tastes that taste great together! (can I have mine without the sand though?)
Occasionally you see signs like this in English, but don't be deceived, almost everything is in Hangul - the Korean alphabet, and sometimes the places that have signs that are written in English (we suspect to lure us in) have NOTHING else in English and no English speakers once you go inside. WHY is the sign outside in English then?? If I find out I will let you know. We were blind-sided by this phenomena several times during the trip, once at a bar that promised us "Beer, Wine and Soju" and then had no wine, no English speaker waiters, and then basically kicked us out. But I digress!
Here is a typical street shot:

So you know at all times that you are no longer in Kansas. The city is very large and very spread out, and almost everyone lives in apartment buildings. To drive from one area of Ulsan to another can take 40 minutes going along at a good clip. It would be like if the city of Houston Included areas like Spring, The Woodlands and Katy. The definition of what's in the city goes waaay farther out that what we would normally define as being part of the city. Our room was over a big megaplex that had a giant Ferris wheel on the roof. It was pretty neat and all lit up at night:
Here is another shot of the same view that I took during the day. You can click on it to enlarge:
Another night shot:
It's a very modern city with lots of restaurants and offices and department stores that have the same shops and brand names and make-up counters that we do. There was a North Face outfitter right down the street from us and an Outback Steakhouse and a Bennigans around the corner. You have to be careful when you try to eat "western" food prepared by Koreans though which brings us to Korean Observation #2: They really like to put their own spin on things. For example at our hotel, at breakfast they served oatmeal cold alongside the cold cereal. All made and milk added and everything just cold. Have you ever eaten cold oatmeal? Not. Good. Or another evening we ate at an Italian restaurant and they had on the menu Spagetti Kimchee. Like "OK, we get how to make spagetti, but this will make it so much BETTER!"
They also have McDonalds but they McDeliver! On mopeds!! Seriously, on the side of the mopeds it actually says "McDelivery" - you can't make this stuff up. A McDelivery man:


So what else? Korean Observation #3: From now on (KO #3: ect. We're going to need an acronym. Something tells me there will be a lot of these...)
They have a really hard time standing in lines (ie airplane boarding in part one) so they have come up with nifty ways to avoid standing in lines. For example when you go to the movies, instead of lining up at the ticket window, you have to take a number and then everyone just mills around, and the ticket people flash numbers over their stations and when your number comes up you get to approach and buy your tickets. You get an assigned seat in the theatre and you get to pick your seat right there at the ticket window like an airline seat selector so then your seat is all saved and you again avoid having to stand in line to get a good seat at the movies.
KO#4: Crazy fashion sense. I was not kidding about the boot/tights/shorts combo. I saw this many times along with animal prints, strange accessories and other ecletic combinations that most of us would never think up or at least wear outside the house. I tried to take a picture of this but Jeff has a "thing" about me taking pictures that you will read about in part 3 so no fashion pics. Sorry.
KO#5: They genuinely seem to like Americans and are very friendly and helpful (except that one guy that made us leave his bar). This kind of makes sense because I totally understand residual resentment from the Japanese and I sometimes have the feeling that China is just waiting for a weak moment to make us all their slaves, but South Korea would be part of North Korea if not for the good ol' US of A (and apparently living in North Korea kind of sucks) so they seem to really like us. Much better than moving to France.....
KO#6: They have FABULOUS bathrooms. And I am a fan of bathrooms that are spiffy. They are always just nice and modern and clean and a lot of the time there is a stall just for children and their parents. How cool is that?
The stalls are great and the locks on the doors always work and they are very private, The doors go all the way to the floor. This makes it impossible to peek under the door to see if the stall is occupied and I don't yet know how to say "Hey, anyone in there?" so this caused some difficulty and I still haven't figured out the best solution. You are welcome to post suggestions.
KO #7: They are obsessed with their phones. Really obsessed. They all have them, they have them out all the time and they will answer them if they ring. Mid-sentence, meal-time, driving, praying, they're answering the phone if it rings. This lady was in the middle of doing a tradional Korean tea ceremony for us and when her phone rang she took the call! I will report back on how far this goes.....

Last but not least is KO#8: They can pull stuff off that we just can't. Like wearing a flu mask. You see people wearing these all over and no one thinks anything of it but something tells me that if an American wore one they would look like a total candy-ass. We often saw groups of people, including school kids where only one or 2 people had a mask on. Can you imagine an American 8th grader with a mask on walking up to peers and going "Yeah, hi guys - mom wanted me to wear the swine flu mask today". I mean it's all over at that point. Kid may as well just save his friends the trouble and dive head first into the trash can right? But the Koreans pull this stuff off and everyone just rolls with it.
So that's it for now. Part three is coming tomorrow, but the jet lag is catching up with me. Time to catch some zzzz's